• Judy R Slegh
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Andover, MN 55304, USA


Things to Process in The Waiting...

January 27, 2020

I have been contemplating starting a private Facebook group for quite a while. I keep thinking, “Do I really need to do this? Why me? What will I have to say that will be more pointed to a private group?” and lastly, “Do I have the time and commitment to dedicate to it...

December 18, 2019

What good can come from an unexpected messy pregnancy, especially if the offense is caused by unconventional family relationships?

We tend to judge quickly and if we are related to the person who conceives, feelings of condemnation, shame and embarrassment come tumbling...

September 21, 2019

I have a bird feeder that has a lot of traffic these days. Today, I took notice of two female cardinals. (Watch the video.) One hopped right up the feeder while the other sat on our deck railing. As I watched, one took food from the feeder and fed the one on the railin...

August 14, 2019

Many times, the truth hurts. It hurts us, it hurts our loved one. It destroys the relationship that we held dear and called stable. As one roots out lies and discovers all of the rotten stuff that has been happening, one senses infection, rottenness and decay. For all...

July 10, 2019

When we focus on our prodigal, we often see the garbage in their life. We become frustrated with them as they willfully waste their time, energy, and aptitudes. We wish we could change them back to what they were.

We can try to change them by controlling the situation,...

April 9, 2019

What do we do when the fire of contention is so close that we feel the flames and are immersed in smoke?

Sometimes the fire of contention and conflict ignites in our prodigal situation. We may watch the flames dance and leap between us initially in a cordial conversatio...

March 18, 2019

Here is a sample from my book, Help! I Have a Prodigal.

In this book, readers identify and deal with the emotions from their prodigal situation through an interactive time with God.

 I pray that God will minister to you through this excerpt.


Judy R. Slegh


March 3, 2019

In a dream I had recently, I saw a woman who was trying to make a frog win a frog race. She was well dressed in a formal suit. She owned the frog and was determined that she would win the race with it. She got down on her hands and knees and pounded the ground next to...

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